A long time ago, my therapist told me:
The goal is actually not to be happy, it is to be
content
happiness dwells on the opposite end of the
feelings spectrum
Like sadness and anger, it is intense
yet fleeting
Contentment however, lies more in the middle
more achievable for long periods
I thought about this for awhile
it baffled me
All of these people chasing happiness and
failing because they stepped over
serenity for
exuberance
with a limited life span
Wonderful ♥️
Thank you so much ❤
Guilty! I pursued happiness in the form of exuberance for way too long. In my case it took a literal breakdown to understand the difference. And coincidentally, I have a poem coming up this afternoon that deals with exactly that subject.
We don’t find happiness, we create it .
Yesss! So important ❤
This one really hits home for me, living with Anhedonia. At best, I can reach a neutral “content” state…
I’m so happy this resonated with you! Thank you so much for reading ❤